Michael Tosiff Tom, 62, of Indianapolis passed away unexpectedly 07/16/2017 at St. Vincent Hospital. Mike was born on July 14, 1955 in Indianapolis, the son of Boris and Mary (Carr) Tom. Mike worked as a painter for 45 years. He took pride in his artistry, craftmanship and was well known in the construction industry for being outstanding in his field. Michael was a Christian man that loved and led his family to the Lord. He enjoyed spending time listening to music, riding his motorcycle and vacationing in Anna Marie Island, Florida. Mike was an avid race fan, he sponsored motor bikes and spent the month of May at the Indianapolis Motor Speedway. He live his life always giving to those in need and fighting for causes to enhance the lives of others especially children and animals. More than anything, Mike enjoyed his family and loved spending time with them.
Mike is survived by his wife Deana and step son Charlie, (2) daughters Melissa Tom of Indianapolis, Leslie Tom of Danville, IN, (2) sons, Derek Tom of Franklin, IN, Tosiff Tom of Indianapolis, IN, granddaughter, Jocelyn Tom, stepchildren; Mike Pagley of Kokomo, Robin Pagley of Indianapolis, brother; Mark (Cindy) Tom of Indianapolis, sister Michelle (Randy) Sullivan of Kokomo, IN, brother Matthew (Penny) Tom of Carmel, IN, nephews, Scott (Jamie) Sullivan of Kokomo, Ross (Stacy) Sullivan of Russiaville, Michael (Veronica) Bowling of Brownsburg, IN, nieces, Amanda (Matthew) Phalen of Kokomo, IN, Melanie Sanders of Indianapolis, Mattie and Mikayla Tom of Carmel, IN, and 8 great-nieces and nephews. Mike was preceded in death by his parents, Boris and Mary (Carr) Tom.
Michael was a gift from God to our family. He was our soldier, always protecting us, teaching us right from wrong and guiding us to join God’s Christian Army. He lives on as our guardian from heaven.
A service celebrating Mikes life will be conducted on July 25, 2017 at 5:00pm at The Blended Church, 2215 Country Club Road, Indianapolis, IN 46234. Friends may call from 2:30 to 5:00pm, with services to follow. Online condolences may be expressed at www.indianafuneralcare.com
What can I say about such a wonderful man…
He was wise, giving, loving, and had a heart bigger than the ocean itself. He was a wonderful step-father to my son and the best husband to me. The day I laid eyes on him, I knew I would be his wife. He will forever be loved by many. I will never forget you, the sweetest love of my life. The only love of my life… –Deana TomWhat can I say about my dad? But a story to show who he was to me. When I was in grade school maybe third grade I had to go to summer school. I was so scared because it was my first time going to school without my sister. My dad who was back living with us at the time, began talking to me about Jesus and his love. This is one of my first real memories of learning about Christ love. My dad and I said the Lord’s Prayer and I became saved that night. My dad talking to me about “Jesus’ armor”. He pretended to place that armor on me, telling me what each piece meant to him. It made me feel calm and safe; I was able to fall asleep that night. My sister has said my dad and I have always had a deep connection with god. I know I was given that connection from my father that night. My dad was a Good man and he instilled that in me. He was also a protector over his family and friends. Something that lives on in me. He would do anything for anyone. We are a lot alike which caused for some bumps along the way. Some of my last words to my dad while at the hospital were “I wouldn’t have traded you being my dad for anything, I’m thankful I got you.” It’s really so said he never actually heard me say it.
I loved being like him, I loved looking like him, I’m proud of who I am because of him. I love you dad. – Leslie Tom
Karen (Abner) Adamson says
We shared a Birthday, Alberta Street, our love for my best childhood friend & your sister Michelle & our love for our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I haven’t shed a tear until now…….my heart was broke when I heard the news but I was too sad to cry. I’m happy for you Mike because I know where you are, you’re home. I cry for the ones left behind that love you so much, I cry for the pain they feel now……..but I know you have left each and every one of us who have ever had the pleasure of your love and friendship a gift that will last forever. Thank you Mike, you will be missed……….
Deana Tom says
What can I say about such a wonderful man…
He was wise, giving, loving, and had a heart bigger than the ocean itself. He was a wonderful step-father to my son and the best husband to me. The day I laid eyes on him, I knew I would be his wife. He will forever be loved by many. I will never forget you, the sweetest love of my life. The only love of my life…
steve o says
Mike, we never met in person…but you have given my friend a lot of joy and happiness, and for that I am grateful. It takes a special kind of strength to enter into a parent role for a special needs child, and I salute someone who not only takes on that role, but relishes in it. Some of my favorite pictures are with Charlie on your shoulders with the biggest smile on his face. You will forever be his “Meek”. Matthew 5:5 will never read the same to me again. Rest in Heaven brother.
Denny & Darlene Phalen says
So very sorry for your loss. May you find peace with the Lord.
Peter Garrison says
I am sorry to hear this i knew Mike for many years and worked with. Him on and off thru the years my condolences and prayers go out to all his family And friends he was a very good man and will surely be missed by all those who knew him
Robin Pagley says
Mike is the kindest man yourll ever meet. He always had that smile everytime you walked in. His words, he always said is, “Whats up ?”. That was the last words he said to me when I went to visit him before he had left to be with an angel. He is a good man…He was always there for my mom even when they werent married. That show he a good guy. He loved everyone. He has a good heart. He will be missed.
Donnie says
Mike was a very cool person and someone I had respect for. You stepped into Deana and Monkeys life and fit like a comfortable pair of shoes. I have never seen my friend so happy and in love. I seen a change in her that I attribute to you and your influence. Monkey was always smiling when I seen him in pics with you. It’s not easy to step in others lives and be such a positive impact. Your love and dedication to her and her son will never be forgotten and I know you will keep a watchful eye over them. Rest peacefully
Jen says
My deepest condolences to the Tom family. Even though I didn’t have the pleasure of knowing Mr. Michael Tom, I understand that losing a loved one is heartbreaking. A pain that even our Lord Jesus Christ suffered when his friend Lazarus died (John 11:33) But he also gave us hope for the future found in John 5:28, 29 – ” Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life.” May the hope of once again seeing our loved ones give you the strength that you need during these difficult situation. For more information please visit: JW.org
Monica says
Leslie, my sister soul, I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know your father, but I know how much he meant to you and your sister. I know how much the meaning behind your name means to you. My deepest condolences to you and your family. May God wrap his loving arms around you all.
Scott and Joyce Kramer says
Our condolences on Mike’s passing. May he rest in peace.
Denise fishel says
I went to school with mike and knew his family we spent a lot times at his parents house growing up he was a good guy sorry to hear this prayers to all the family. Love to mark and Cindy and Michelle and mikes wife and kids. Love denise dean fishel
David & Susie Wallen says
David Wallen, my husband is how I got to meet you. I feel in love with your soul immediately when you smiled and said hello. I knew you were a very special man. Thank you for helping us paint our house and garage. Thank you for being a good and wonderful friend to husband. I’ve only seen you a few times and I must say, this tragic has left me wondering why you. I’ve had the pleasure of meeting your daughter at the VA, and I saw a lot of you in her. Your passing shook our world. We will not be able to come to your service for we have to be south to pick up our grandson. We both love you Mike Tom and we will see you once again in heaven. Our condolences for his wife children and all his loved ones..
David Shinkle says
Deana will not be able to come to the service but wanted to say how sorry to hear about mike
Tim haltom says
Michael is such a great person and dear friend I’m so sorry for your loss prayers for you and your family.
Prentiss Jackson says
Had the pleasure of servicing Mike at my Washington Square Sherwin Williams store. Always told me family stories and how him and his wife loved going to Applebee’s. Very good man who was honest and fair. Always Kept a smile on this face. Broke my heart this morning to walk into work to see his obituary sitting on my keyboard. May he Rest In Peace.
Bob Fersch says
Deana, I am truly at a loss after I had received your text. Michael and I had a long lasting business relationship, but we were also friends. He cared so much about what he did professionally, but his human side, his kind side and caring about others would always shine. I am so sorry for your loss, I did not know about it and would have certainly wanted to be part of the sharing of his life. I pray for you and your family. A good man is with God!!
MF says
Rest In Peace Mike