Date Of Birth: September 20, 1980
Date Of Death: March 29, 2004
23, passed away March 29, 2004 at Wishard Hospital.Paul was born September 20, 1980.He loved guitar and drums and played both.He is survived by his mother, Paula Bienz, father and step mother, Christopher and Tammy Bienz; loving aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Mary Kenworthy says
I will miss you!
Aunt Donna says
My favorite, beautiful most precious nephew, I miss you more than you will ever know. It rips my heart out to know I will never see your sweet smile I have seen so many times over the years of you growing up, you were in my eyes a perfect little boy,I know I will see you in heaven & you are with your grandparents & I will see you one day when we all meet up again. I love you with all my heart, Love your aunt Donna
Aunt Donna says
My favorite, beautiful most precious nephew, I miss you more than you will ever know. It rips my heart out to know I will never see your sweet smile I have seen so many times over the years of you growing up, you were in my eyes a perfect little boy,I know I will see you in heaven & you are with your grandparents & I will see you one day when we all meet up again. I love you with all my heart, Love your aunt Donna
Debra Craib says
Paul…I just was getting to know you but I have gotten to know you through the eyes of your Mother..I know you Loved her…and she loves you more than words can explain..We will miss you…I will be there as a Friend and Sister to take care of your Mom as I know you would have done…. God Bless and Keep you safe.
Auntie “D”
Mom says
Dear Paul,
A million times I will miss you,
A million times I will cry;
If love alone could have saved you,
You would have never died.
In life I loved you dearly,
In death I love you still;
In my heart you hold a place
No other one can fill.
Greatly Missed on Your 24th Birthday and Always!
Love,
Mother says
Dear Son,
If I knew it was the last time
That I would see you fall asleep
I would tuck you in more tightly
And pray the Lord your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time
I would hear your voice and the music you use to play,
I would video tape each action and word
So I could play them back day after day.
If I knew it would be the last time
Instead of assuming that you knew ôI Love Youö
I would have spared an extra minute,
Just to stop and tell you that I do.
If I knew it would be the last time
I would have been there to share your day.
But I was sure you would have so many more,
So I could just let this one slip away.
For surely thereÆs always tomorrow
To make up for an oversight
And we always get a second chance
To make everything all right.
I thought there would always be another day
I could express my love to you.
And certainly another chance
To say ôIs there anything I can do?ö
But in your case I was wrong.
Only pictures and memories are all I get.
So I say to you now that I LOVE YOU.
And hope you NEVER FORGET!
Remembering you on your 24th Birthday
And loving you always,
Mom
Aunt Donna says
I miss you dearly, words can never say how much. I still look at your pictures & wonder why? I guess only God knows that answer. I love & miss you, I just wish you were here. Love Aunt Donna
Aunt LaDonna says
I miss you more & more as the days pass. Not a day goes past without thinking of you. It has been almost a year, I say hello to your picture every day, praying that some day I will be good enough to be there with you & the rest. I love & miss you dearly Paulie, Love Aunt Donna
Debbie says
Pauley, it seems only like yesterday I got a call your mom was at the hospital with you….and you were about to leave her. In a flash both lives were forever changed. I believe God brought you home where you would not stray, so that you may spend eternity in heaven and see your mother one day. I look forward to getting to know my “nephew”. Your mother and I have become The Best of Friends and my children have found a new “Aunt”. You will never know how much Your Mother Loves you and misses you…..I have heard wonderful stories of your child hood, hear her sing prasies of how talented musicisian you are, I see the twinkle of her eye when thoughs of you cross her mind and watch her wipe tears of loneliness away. I know children think parents are too strict, to overbearing….but it is only out of love. As a mother I see her pain……Send her a smile, a soothing whisp of fresh air…let her know you are here and near her.
God….Protect and keep Darla close to you in her time if need, set her mind at ease and let her release her sorrow…In God’s name…amen
You are greatly missed…..
Your New Aunt Dee
Darla Bienz says
Dear Wally…I miss you sooo much, your face, your smile, your laughter…the sound of your voice, the touch of your skin, and the smell of your colonge…even our arguments. The phone never rings and none of your friends, (even tho’ I didn’t like most of them) ever come around. As much as I complained, I miss it/them now, they in a weird way connect me to you…I LOVE YOU ENORMOUSLY!! I can not believe it will be 1 year the end of this month, time stopped for me, and it seems “disrespectful” that it didn’t stop for the rest of the world !!
Just know that you are not forgotten, I do remember!
Hugs & Kisses, Mom
Aunt Donna says
Paulie, It’s hard to believe that you are not in body with us anymore, but you are inside my heart & will always remain there for the rest of my living days. I miss your smile & laughter, I can still here it & think of it every day at work, it cheers me up to hear that but then I know some of it is just wishful thinking, I can keep your memories in my heart & no one can take none of them. I have your picture up at work as I have thru out the years wherever I have been, I will always keep it there & with me, your smile is something I see everyday. I miss you & love you dearly.
Darla Bienz says
Dearest Paul,
My son and only child, I LOVE and MISS you every day, but more so today and I expect it will be even worse tomorrow on the first anniversary date of your death!
Where ever you are, if your spirit lives on, please think of me tomorrow. Know that I am thinking of you and missing you! xxx ooo…
Eternal Love,
Mom
Darla Bienz says
Dearest Paul,
Well, today’s the day I’ve been dreading for so long. Surprisingly, I’m not doing as bad as I expected, not good, just not as bad. Nothing could be worse than 1 year ago today.
I took some flowers and spent 4 hours by your grave this morning and will probably be going back there before the day is over.
I just wanted to say that I remember, and will always remember this date and YOU! My heart may be broken, but each piece is still full of love for you.
I miss you,
Mom
Deanna says
Well its so hard to believe that you are gone you should still be here celebrating your birthday with us we all miss you and will love you always and i will always be there for your mother REST IN PEACE BABY LOVE YOU
Mom says
Thinking of you on your 25th Birthday! You’ll always be missed!
Much Love,
Mom
Aunt Donna says
Hi Paulie, I haven’t forgotten your birthday, just too much pain to think you are gone from all of us & I still cry. I think of you every day, I still have your picture at work with me all day I can see you while I am working, I still say hello to your picture when I come through the door each day, I miss you very much. It tears my heart up to know I can’t hear your laughter anymore, see the smile you can brighten my day with, I love you very much, Miss you more & think of you always. Happy Birthday, until we meet again, Love Aunt Donna
Mom says
Wish you were here…I LOVE YOU !!
my little buddy says
Hi little buddy, I miss you & seems like things have not gotten any easier as time has gone past. I look forward to seeing you all your grandparents one day. I miss you & love you dearly……. Love & Miss you always Paulie my little buddy, Love Aunt Donna
mom says
Hi Sweetheart,
Just wanted to say I miss you each and every day. I haven’t forgotten you or that this is the 2nd anniversary of when you were taken to the hospital & tomorrow’s date is the day they pronounced you as brain dead. I’ll never forget you, or let those dates go by with out thinking of you. I love you so very much.
xxx Love you always ooo,
Mom
Mom says
Hi Wally,
Just wanted to say I’ve been thinking about you alot lately…I miss you so very much & it hurts so badly. How can I live without you?
Hope to see you soon, XXX’s & OOO’s.
Eternal Love,
Mom
Mom says
Love you always!
Aunt Donna says
Happy Birthday Early Little Buddy!!!! Love, Many Tears & Missing You Always, Love Aunt Donna
Aunt Donna says
I love & miss you & just thinking of you still everyday. If there is a way for you to take your dads’ hand & help him thru this hard time in his life & guide him into a better way I know he misses you as well but needs you & Gods help now more than ever, Love ya always little buddy, Love Aunt Donna
Mom says
Dear Son,
I hope where ever you are at that you somehow are having a Happy 26th Birthday!
I love & miss you “more” than ever sweetheart.
My love to you always,
Mom
Mom says
Sweetheart, you have been on my mind so much lately…the tears haven’t stopped yet & I doubt they EVER will!
I love and miss you greatly,
Mom
xxxooo
Mom says
I know this is after Christmas, but please know that you were not and are not forgotten! I decorated your grave with a grave blanket that was specially made for you, not just another one of those copycat plain ones that can be ordered from the cemetery. I also put the wreath back out that someone left on your grave last year. (I took it off so the grave yard would not throw it away during their spring clean up.) Wish I knew who left it last year, (if the giver is reading this, please contact me and let me know who you are…and Thank You!) It is all very pretty but I would much rather have you, alive and well and here with me. I miss you soooo much!
My Love Forever,
Mom
Mom says
My dear, sweet son,
It is said that things get easier with time. Well, it’s been almost 3 years now and it’s not any easier at all. I still love you greatly, miss you enormously, and selfishly want you here with me…alive and well!
My Love Always,
Your Mom
ooo & xxx
Mom says
How can it be that it’s been 3 yrs already. It’s just not possible, it seems like just a few weeks ago that you were taken to the hospital and put on life support systems and the next day, March 29th, you were pronounced brain dead.
How did I get through 3 entire years without you? I miss you so badly. xxx ooo’s.
Till I see you again,
Your Grieving Mother
Mom says
Well, I spent some time at your grave today, left 3 white roses 1 for every year you’ve been gone. And a very, very small balloon, that said “Yesterday, Today, and Forever….I Love You”.
I’m missing you badly today, just dont know what to do with myself, I just wander around.
I pray your soul has found peace.
I love you son,
Mom
Mom says
Remembering you on your 27th birthday and always…wish you were here.
I love you Paul,
Mom
Mom says
Dear Son,
Can you hear what I’m writing you? Since the morning you left, there’s not been a day I have not wished for you, watched for you, walked by the emptiness of your room.
How I long for you to somehow know, wherever you are, that you are loved and, yes, forgiven, before you even ask. I know that the path you took brought you pain. How can I let you know I hurt with you? I know the way you chose left you lonely and afraid. In the night, when you had only the empty silence for company, after those who used you had all gone away, please know that you were not alone.
Can you feel how my arms ache to hold you? How my eyes watch the horizon every evening and search the mist of every dawn for the glimpse of you returning? And though I can’t send you this letter, it’s written on the wind, it’s etched in every sunset, it’s whispered by the grasses of the field. No matter how far away you go, you are my son, and nothing you can do, no distance of choice, will make me stop loving you.
My Eternal Love,
Your Mother
Mom says
Mom says
My Dearest Paul,
Here I am again, remembering you on your 4th anniversary…missing you more than ever!
I went to your grave today & left some flowers. Maggie & Madison had also been there & left you flowers & tokens showing they remembered. (Maggie, if you find your way to this site, I thank you!)
You are always in my thoughts, I love you so very, very much.
Hugs & Kisses,
Mom
Mom says
Happy 28th Birthday Sweetheart,
As always, I miss you terribly and wish you were here with me. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!
Butterfly Kisses & Bear Hugs,
xxx Mom ooo
Aunt Donna says
Hello little buddy, yes it’s been awhile & I missed telling u happy birthday, I miss u still, the pain & void will always be here in my heart that u are gone, I still have pictures of you in my room where I spend alot of my time & can see your face, you give me strength & hope that I will somehow find peace & understanding in all of this, the old saying is there are so many bad people out in this world & even in our own family,why you, you needed help thats all you were not a bad person or hateful, no matter what u always were smiling & laughing when I seen u, u wouldn’t harm anyone u helped everyone, I love & miss u terribly & wrestle with why thru out these past yrs since u have left us all. I still cry, I will always miss u, I love u dearly, you were never a bad person,we will always be here thinking, hurting, wishing u were here, missing the love & what could have been. I love u my little buddy, Love always Aunt Donna
aunt ladonna says
Merry christmas little buddy, I miss u so much & u r in the best place I know with God, who better to celebrate his birth, I bet you had a beautiful time, but we all still miss u being here so much, Love & Hugs Always, Love Aunt Donna 🙁
Aunt LaDonna says
I still think of you every passing day, I miss you & your smile, Love, Hugs, Kisses & millions of tears but wonderful memories in my mind always, Love forever & missed by us all 🙁